Friday, October 18, 2013

Be Present & Stay Grounded


5 Ways to Love the Present Moment – NO MATTER what!

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Recently, a small black mole appeared on my ankle. I had a sinking feeling when I saw it. A biopsy and a personal call from the doctor confirmed that the spot was indeed cause for concern and I would need surgery to remove a larger section of the surrounding tissue.
I got the news the day before I left to lead a weeklong yoga retreat in Maui. I wouldn’t be able to practice yoga for at least three weeks after the procedure, so the doc told me to enjoy my vacation and we would schedule surgery when I got back. Enjoy my vacation? Obviously, the doctor didn’t know me well enough to know that you can’t say the words melanoma and enjoy Maui in the same sentence.
My mind instantly started spinning. One moment I was blissfully packing for a trip to paradise and the next, I was packing for what might be the last trip of my life. My thoughts dragged me down a slippery slope of what ifs. What if it’s cancer? What if the surgery doesn’t remove it all? What if I need chemotherapy and lose all my hair? What if I need to have my foot amputated?
Each thought was feeding on the negativity of the last, sending me down a deep, dark rabbit hole. The fact that my mom died last year from cancer only made the rabbit hole deeper and darker. As I boarded the plane to Maui, I asked myself the most important what if. What if I released my fears and allowed myself to be fully present? My retreaters deserved my full presence and so did I. The truth was, I felt great. I could still spread my toes on my yoga mat, stretch my arms up to the sky and breathe in gratitude for the blessing of this moment.
In the Yoga Sutras, Patanjali tells us “Heyam duhkham anagatam.” Pain that has not yet come is avoidable. If we allow our present to be filled with the fear of future suffering, we suffer twice.
As author and activist Corrie ten Boom beautifully put it, “Worrying is carrying tomorrow’s load with today’s strength – carrying two days at once. Worrying doesn’t empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength.” There is no more powerful medicine than making peace with the unknown of tomorrow and saving our strength for today.
As I sit here writing this, the dull ache in my ankle from the surgery I had upon my return, reminds me that I am still alive and more whole than ever before. And that rabbit hole? It no longer exists, because this time, the call from the doctor came back all clear.
Here are 5 ways to let go of your fears and embrace the peace of the present:
1. Practice yoga.
Yoga provides a physical outlet for the release of emotional anxiety. The mind has a hard time wandering when you’re firmly anchored to the presence of your body and your breath.
2. Meditate.
Find a quiet space to sit still and just be. Be present to the sound and sensation of your breath. Observe your thoughts and let them come and go without attachment or judgment. If you feel yourself starting to identify with a thought, simply draw your awareness back to your breath to ground you in the present.
3. Every day, write down three things for which you are grateful.
As Eckhart Tolle says “Pain can only feed on pain. Pain cannot feed on joy. It finds it quite indigestible.” Eradicate your fears by inviting gratitude and joy into your life.
4. Acknowledge & accept.
That which we resist, persists. Sometimes the simple act of acknowledging what we fear is the most powerful way to release us from its hold. If your fears are rational, like a serious illness, first accept whatever the situation is. (Note that acceptance does not mean giving up or giving in!) Use this acceptance as a way to move into positive action.
5. Try light visualization.
Darkness cannot survive in the presence of light. When you feel dark thoughts creeping in, visualize yourself as light. See a tiny ember of white light glowing in your belly. Fan this ember with slow, rhythmic breaths and watch the ember grow into radiant white light. Let this light radiate out from your center, flooding your entire body in a brilliant bath of healing light.
Article byLiz Arch is the creator of Primal Yoga®
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Friday, October 4, 2013

Do you believe in Past Lives?


Do you believe in Past Lives?

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Here are 4 Signs You May Have Had A Past Life ~
If you’ve ever wondered why you have a fear of heights or look into the eyes of a stranger and feel as if you know them, the answers may be found in your past lives, says Brian Weiss, MD, the author of Miracles Happen.
As told to Joan Podrazik
1. That Old, Familiar Feeling
Through past-life regression, Dr. Brian Weiss says it’s possible to heal — and grow — your mind, body and soul, as well as strengthen your present-day relationships. He says one of the most common signs of a past life is déjà vu — the sensation that you have met a person before or have visited someplace previously. Sometimes, this déjà vu feeling is a sign of a past life with a particular person or in a specific place.
For example, a patient of mine began having anxiety attacks while on her honeymoon in Greece. When she and her husband left for Rome, the anxiety attacks completely disappeared. When she saw me as a patient, we did a past life regression and found that she had been killed in ancient Greece. Her anxiety attacks stemmed from that lifetime even though she did not know why at the time.
2. Your Dreams Are So Real It’s Like You’re Actually There
Do you have vivid, detailed dreams of yourself in different times and places? That might be a past life memory emerging. As I’ve written in my book, past-life recollections aren’t always actual memories: they may also contain symbols and metaphors that need to be interpreted so that their meaning and message can become clear. These symbols are no less powerful than literal ones. Think of these past-life scenes more as a poem than a history text.
3. You Got An A In History (Without Even Trying)
Talents and abilities, likes and dislikes, and attractions and aversions can also be clues to past lives. You might feel yourself being drawn to certain people or to certain cultures, even if you’ve never visited them. You might find you are able to learn certain subjects or prepare for a profession more easily than others. For example, a particular foreign language might come quicker to you, while others are more difficult. Or you may have an intense interest in certain historical times and events, such as ancient Egypt or the Civil War period.
4. You Have a Soul Mate
It is very common to travel through different lives with the same group of souls — I call these groupings, soul mates or soul companions, or soul families. We seem to learn our spiritual lessons and accumulate or resolve our karma with our soul groups. Relationships may change from life to life, but the souls are the same. For example, your grandmother might reincarnate as your grandson. In this sense we never lose our loved ones, because we are always being reunited either on the other side or back here in physical bodies. In Miracles Happen, I describe many cases of soul recognition. In one case, Michelle, whose mother died when Michelle was a small child, was comforted to find that she and her mother were together before in the Middle Ages. They were husband and wife at that time.
Brian L. Weiss, MD, is the author of Miracles Happen.

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Letting Go ... and Stepping into the Flow!


Letting GO and Stepping into the Flow

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This month I would like to start a blog series from my Soul Coaching® teacher Denise Linn.
“I believe that we should love our bodies, no matter what size, shape or age.
I also know that it’s time for me personally to drop a few pounds. This doesn’t mean that I’m judging my body or thinking that it’s not okay. Actually, I’m profoundly grateful for the body I have and I want to honor it. It means, however, that just like my car needs periodic oil changes, it’s time for a tune up for my body.  This 28-day journey is my journey. It comes from my belief that deep within every being is a place of infinite wisdom; a place that knows what is needed. My goal is to tap into this place within myself to gain the needed inspiration and insight to drop some unneeded weight at this time. And hopefully my journey can be supportive of you for tapping into that sacred place within yourself as well.
In the past, when even one person believed in me I was able to accomplish more than I thought possible. I believe that you and I are not that different in this regard. It occurs to me that if we believe in each other, it’s more likely we can each meet our goals more easily.
In this program, I’m not promoting a particular kind of diet or a particular kind of exercise or weight loss program . . . I don’t believe there is one way that’s right for everyone. And personally, I don’t like to suffer or restrict myself to gain a goal. It’s doesn’t usually work when I do. For me, the very best, lasting results come through joy and celebration.”
Here are a list of things for the next 28 days to think about:
1. Be conscious of what I eat and drink, and how I move my body.
2. Live in a spirit of gratitude for every part of my body.
3. Watch the signs every day to see what the Universe is telling me regarding my body.
4. There is a powerful correlation between our homes and our bodies, so in addition to doing some intensive clutter clearing this month in my home, I’m also going to do home repair. (Squeaky hinges and leaking faucets, watch out.)
IT DOESN’T NEED TO BE PERFECT TO WORK!
What You Need:
For this program I suggest three journals. You could also section a journal into three parts, get a three-ring notebook with three sections, or create three separate documents on your computer.
Journal One is for processing what ever comes up for you. You may also answer the questions that are posed in this workbook within this journal. This journal is more-or-less like a diary. It’s a place to really tell the truth about what you are feeling. It’s also a great place to notice the signs that arise every day. It’s true that in every moment the Universe is trying to tell you something. There’s value in listening.
This is also a great place to record your dreams. Often the Universe speaks to you through your dreams. As a suggestion, program your dreams to get information about your body and health. For more information about how to do this my book Hidden Power of Dreams has lots of information about programming dreams.
Record your goals, insights and accomplishments in this journal too. I am going to take before and after photos of myself to put here as well.
Journal Two is for recording what you eat, and whatever exercising/movement you do, as well as how much quiet time i.e. meditation, etc. you have done each day. Record in this journal how many hours you sleep each night. Research suggests that people who get 4 hours or less of sleep are heavier and eat more, and people who sleep 8 hours weigh less and eat less. You also might want to record how much water you drink. Some studies suggest a correlation between water intake and dropping weight. By recording what you ingest and do and how you feel, you might begin to notice if there is a connection between what you are doing and what you feel. Sometimes this is very telling.
Journal Three is for recording your gratitude and JOY every day. There is ALWAYS something to be grateful for. Personally, I use art instead of words. I use colored pencils to draw the things that brought me joy. I find the kinesthetic experience of drawing my joyful moments seems to ingrain them deeper than just writing about them.. This journal is also the place to celebrate your successes. For example, If you normally couldn’t walk to the top of the stairs without being out of breath, this is the place to celebrate that you got to the top of the stair . . . and weren’t out of breath.
It’s time to take control of your life and the choices you make!
Next week steps to “Clear the Clutter in your life”

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Thursday, August 22, 2013

Crystal Bowls for Meditation, Healing, Balance and Restoration



The Nature of the Bowls
Crystal bowls have been used in healing modalities since the 1980′s. While some people speculate on the use of crystal singing bowls in ancient cultures, I am aware of no direct evidence of their use. However, interestingly enough, in a merger of new and ancient technologies, the computer industry made very high quality, pure silicon quartz crystal bowls utilized to grow pure silicon chips for their computers. If the bowls were not precise enough, they were thrown out. Apparently someone on the way to the trash bin discovered they have incredible pure sounds, also, and decided to stop discarding them! This birthed the singing crystal bowl industry. Since this time, they have become a vehicle of enormous potential for those working with sounds in both ancient and new healing technologies. Much like the ancient Tibetan Bowls, the crystal bowls can be used as sound tools. Coupling awareness and intent in their use can demonstrably increase their effectiveness. By simply listening to the rich, pure, vibrant tone of a bowl, most sound recipients find them deeply relaxing, rejuvenating, even stirring of deep emotions and states of well being. By utilizing awareness techniques, a practitioner can guide the recipient into states of clarity, balancing of chakra centers, and much more. They can be used to transport the recipient into deep meditative states, even shamanic journeys into other dimensional states, or, realms of wisdom and understanding.
Healing Properties
Dr. Mitchell Gaynor, MD, a cancer specialist of Cornell Medical Center, NY, has found using the bowls, especially with simple chant and meditative practices, assist his clients to come into marked improvement and recovery rates over those using just standard allopathic treatment. Many other practitioners are offering both studies and anecdotal testimony in their use. I find them to be an extraordinary tool for simply bathing the client in rich sounds, which generate deep feeling states of wellness and relaxation. This can lead the body into a place of homeostasis, which assists the body in self-generative healing. From this place of relaxation or restoration, one can, also, easily guide a recipient into meditative states to explore deeper aspects of emotional release and resolution, or journeying into the inner dimensional awareness of one’s greater being, and the greater Cosmos. The bowls can easily be played, by any individual, for one’s own feeling states of attunement, relaxation, or wellness, as well as a ‘drone’ for voice in chant, mantra, song, or ‘toning.’The bowls are easily struck and ‘sung’ by rubbing the outside of the bowl with rubber or suede mallets which accompany the bowls. Any novice can usually be proficient in a matter of moments, one of the unique and lovely aspects of the bowl. They do not take much training. Simple Practice One can easily use one’s own intuitive guidance as to how to enter deeper states. The rare, pure tone of the bowl is extraordinary, and allows for rapid ‘attunement’ to a clear state of awareness, or consciousness. Such states allows for deepening meditative states, or touching into unresolved emotions awating clarity or release. Just breathing the feeling states that arise, from simple use of the bowl, one can easily access clarity, release, deep feeling states of spaciousness or coherence, which bring essential wellness. With a skilled practitioner, again, one can, also, enter heightened states of awareness, to peer into the greater dimensional aspects of cosmos, or the Greater Self, or journey into deeper mechanisms of release and healing of specific memory or trauma, etc. I highly recommend the bowls for use in simple meditative or healing practice, with or without the use of voice. But, again, they greatly enhance voice practices of all kind, as a pure and coherent tone generator, or drone instrument. And, the use of awareness and voice, properly utilized, can offer extraordinary capacity to deepen one’s experience over the bowl alone. This is one of my primary choices as a vehicle for healing, and other worldly experiences as a sound practitioner. If I had three choices, it would be a crystal bowl, Native American frame drum, and a Tibetan bell.
Full Chakra Sets
Many suggest the necessity of a full ‘chakra set’ of crystal bowls.We do not. While using a bowl with a different pitch for each chakra can be a beneficial method of meditation, balance, or restoration of these sacred centers, every qualified practitioner I have ever been around can use one bowl for all practices. Having two or three bowls to generate various sounds for various reasons, mostly flexibility of voice, can be of benefit, if wanted, but a full set is not necessary. However, again, this can be useful for some. I do not demean the use of 7 or more bowls, just want to clarify, for most practitioners, it is not a necessity at all. And, some will sell you on this as a necessity. That is unfortunate when it occurs.The reality is, the work of meditation, healing, and wellness, is more about awareness and intent, than it is specific sounds or pitch. And, with proper awareness, one can do far more than by working with this pitch or that pitch. It can actually be distracting to the true nature of intent and healing.
How Do I Know Which Bowl Works Best for My Use?
The bowls come in many sizes, colors, tones, and even infusions of gemstones.This can be very confusiong, and I am going to boil this down to the simplest, most common uses and needs, without in depth explanation, as that can take a book. (For those seeking more specific answers, in order to select a bowl for purchase, our staff is fully trained and available to help you. I only withhold for need of space to incorporate this full body of knowledge.) For those who are not educated in musical theory enough to understand the difference in varying pitches, it usually is not an issue which pitch you get, though you may find the sound of one bowl touches you for reasons another may not. Each bowl size is only available in a few various pitches, and most of these are not ‘true’ pitch. This in itself probably requires yet another article. But, it is not an issue for most people who are not working with specific pitch for specific reasons, such as playing with standard tuned instruments in performance or recordings. The gemstones, also, are another story. And while some will swear by their use, we, again, find one bowl of any kind with right intent serves far greater value than any much more expensive gemstone bowl in itself will do. (We are happy to sell gemstone bowls for those who feel the benefit outweighs the cost, and we are happy to help with more specific guidance for those seeking to purchase a bowl. We, also, offer in depth guidance in their use in our trainings. For simplicity sake, we simply state we do not find their effectiveness matches their cost, when compared to developing fundamental use of awareness and intent in practices with bowls.) Most people will find a 10-12″ frosted bowl as easy and versatile an instrument as you need. For deeper sounds, the 14″ is plenty of depth for the vast majority of practitioners. My initial recommendation is a D or C pitched bowl. However, these are not available in all sizes, and, for most, it is not essential to have one pitch or another. Choosing what simply ‘feels right’ to one is as easy a tool and reason as most others! The F is very popular, and because of this, costs more in most cases. Any of the other pitches currently available (it does change consistently over time,) will satisfy MOST people looking to use these special instruments. For those practicing and wanting to use the sounds closer to, or, even, over others, such as on a massage table, you may prefer the versatility of a clear hand held handle bowl. These are a great tool, and now my primary one. The clear bowls do have a deliciously richer tone, which extends forever, it seems, but are a little more expensive. We specifically recommend the 6″ or 7″ sizes for best tone and ease of use for most people. For deepest pitches, or for stronger arms, some may like the 8″ size. We do not recommend smaller bowls than any of these, as we sometimes find the tones not as rich or strong, or, the bowl a little harder to play. (Less than 10″ frosted, though 9″ is usually good, when available, or less than 6″ clear handle.)
I always use the singing crystal bowls at my women’s retreats as they help promote grounding and relaxation!
Check out my upcoming EAT,PRAY, LOVE women's Retreat - November 14th-17th 2013 

Sunday, August 11, 2013

A Simple meditation for a Better Night's Sleep



Meditation In Action: A 10-Step Mindfulness Practice For Better Sleep
It’s no secret that meditation can help us sleep better. There are some specific meditative exercises that can help us nod off when our minds are in overdrive. In the exercise below, the meditation experts at Headspace share some insight for feeling more at ease when your head hits the pillow. Remember, this is not an exercise to make you go to sleep, but rather to increase your awareness and understanding of your mind at night. It just so happens that it often results in sleep.
Step 1
Once you’re lying comfortably in bed, take five deep breaths, breathing in through the nose and out through the mouth. As you breathe in, try to get a sense of the lungs filling with air and the chest expanding. As you breathe out, imagine the thoughts and feelings of the day just disappearing into the distance, and any feelings of tension in the body just melting away. This will help to prepare both the body and the mind for the exercise ahead.
Step 2
Begin by checking-in — how you’re feeling –in both body and mind. Remember that in the same way you can’t rush relaxation, you cannot rush sleep, so take your time with this part of the exercise. Don’t worry if there are lots of thoughts whizzing around (this is absolutely normal). For now, just let them do their own thing. Whatever you do, avoid the temptation to resist the thoughts, no matter how unsettling or uncomfortable they may be.
Step 3
Next, become aware of the physical points of contact in a little bit more detail. Bring your attention back to the sensation of the body touching the bed, the weight of the body sinking down into the mattress. Notice where the points of contact are strongest -– is the weight distributed evenly? You can also notice any sounds or other sensations. Sounds can be especially disturbing when you’re trying to go to sleep. At first it’s helpful to recognize whether it’s a sound you can change, or if it’s something outside of your control, something you can do nothing about. Then, rather than resisting the sound, gently rest your attention on it, remaining present with the sound for 30 seconds or so, before bringing your attention back to the body.
Step 4
Now try to get a sense of how the body actually feels. At first, do this in a general way. For example, does the body feel heavy or light, restless or still? Then try to get a more accurate picture by mentally scanning down through the body, from head to toe, gently observing any tension or tightness. Invariably, the mind will be drawn to areas of tension, but you can relax in the knowledge that you are about to sleep and that the exercise will help to release those areas. You can do this scan several times, taking about 20 to 30 seconds each time. Remember to notice the areas that feel relaxed and comfortable, as well as any areas of discomfort.
Step 5
By now you will have probably already noticed the rising and falling sensation of the breath, but if you haven’t, just bring your attention to that place in the body where you feel the movement most clearly. As always, don’t try to change the rhythm of the breath in any way, instead allow the body to do its own thing. There is no right or wrong way to breathe within the context of this exercise, so don’t worry if you feel it more in the chest than the stomach. Notice whether the breath is deep or shallow, long or short, smooth or irregular.
Step 6
As you watch the breath for a minute or two, it’s quite normal for the mind to wander off. When you realize you’ve been distracted, that the mind has wandered off, in that moment you are back in the present, and all you need do is gently return the focus to the rising and falling sensation. You don’t need to time this part of the exercise, you can just naturally move on to the next section when it feels as if a couple of minutes has passed.
Step 7
This next part of the exercise is about thinking back through the day in a focused and structured way. Begin by thinking back to the very first moment you can remember in the day, right after waking up in the morning. Do you remember how you felt upon waking? Now, as if your brain has been set to a very gentle “fast-forward,” simply watch as your mind replays the events, meetings and conversations of the day. This doesn’t need to be in detail, it’s more of an overview, a series of snapshots passing through the mind.
Take about three minutes to go through the entire day, right up to the present moment. It might seem like a lot to fit into just a few minutes, but as I say, this is only an overview of the day, so don’t take any longer than three or four minutes. After a couple of days you’ll no doubt feel comfortable with the speed of it.
As the mind replays the day, there is the inevitable temptation to jump in and get caught up in the thinking. It’s normal for the mind to wander like this at first, but obviously it’s not helpful to get involved in new thinking at this time of night. So, as before, when you realize you’ve been distracted, gently return to the film playing back in your mind and pick up where you left off.
Step 8
Having brought yourself up to the present moment, you can now return your focus to the body. Place your attention on the small toe of the left foot and imagine that you’re just switching it off for the night. You can even repeat the words
“switch off” or “and rest” in your mind as you focus on the toe. It’s as if you’re giving the muscles, joints, bones and everything else permission to switch off for the night, knowing they will not be needed again until the morning.
Step 9
Do the same with the next toe, and the next, and so on. Continue in this way through the ball of the foot, the arch, the heel, the ankle, the lower half of the leg and so on all the way up to the hip and pelvic area.
Before you repeat this exercise with the right leg, take a moment to notice the difference in the feeling between the leg that has been “switched off” and the one that hasn’t. If there was any doubt in your mind about whether anything was actually happening as you do this exercise, you’ll feel it now. Repeat the same exercise on the right leg, once again starting with the toes and working your way all the way up to the waist.
Step 10
Continue this exercise up through the torso, down through the arms, hands and fingers, and up through the throat, neck, face and head. Take a moment to enjoy the sensation of being free of tension, of not needing to do anything with the body, of having given up control. You can now allow the mind to wander as much as it wants, freely associating from one thought to the next, no matter where it wants to go, until you drift off to sleep.*
*It’s quite possible that by the time you’ve reached this point in the exercise you will be fast asleep. If you are, enjoy the rest and sleep well. Don’t worry if you’re not asleep though — it’s not that you’ve done the exercise incorrectly. Remember that it’s not an exercise to make you go to sleep, but rather an exercise to increase your awareness and understanding of your mind at night.
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Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Women's Retreat November 14th-17th 2013


The Mountains ARE Calling YOU!


Eat, Pray Love Women's Retreat
November 14th - 17th 2013
Dahlonega Resort Spa
Dahlonega, Georgia
Rediscover yourself in Dahlonega, GA
Your time is limited, 
so don't waste it living someone else's life.  
Don't let the noise of other's opinions 
drown out your own inner voice. 
And most important, have the courage to  
follow your heart and intuition.  
They somehow already know 
what you truly want to become.  
Everything else is secondary. 
~ Steve Jobs

Are you wondering what to do with the second half of your life??

If you said YES.....this women's weekend is for YOU!


We get many chances in life to do more, run faster, and be more productive. However, it is rare that we receive the precious opportunity to do less and be more.


Join experienced facilitator, Felicia Grant, and a community of women for a quiet exploration back to yourself, while you are surrounded by the tranquility and spectacular scenery of the Blue Ridge Mountains. This women's weekend offers the opportunity to step back from your busy life and gently get back in touch with yourself and the still, small voice within you that whispers the truth. 
You'll be shown easy, practical ways to manage your mind and open your heart in a safe, supportive,  environment. Though the beauty of nature, meditation, yoga, quiet, laughter, small group exercises, and ceremony, you can come into balance and alignment, rekindle your sense that anything is possible, and leave inspired with anew vision of what a truly amazing woman you really are!


  • EAT, delicious, freshly grown, local inspired meals.
  • PRAY, meditate or just relax your mind and spirit in a beautiful tranquil setting.
  • LOVE and be loved by yourself and other fabulous and inspiring women.

 Investment $649.00 

*Based on semi-private accommodations. Double Beds with private bath. Limited Cabins available for 3-4 to share. Includes all meals, 2 yoga sessions.


About the Dahlonega Resort Spa
"Dahlonega Spa Resort, is a Wellness Retreat Center and Inn located on 72 acres near the historic gold-rush town of Dahlonega, GA, nestled in the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains, just over an hour and a half north of Atlanta.

The main house is a reproduction 1920s-style Farmhouse with a wraparound porch that provides spectacular and relaxing views of the Chattahoochee National Forest and beyond. Walking trails and labyrinth

With 16 rooms available in the main house/West Wing, barn house and cottage have beautiful views either of the English style wildflower gardens, the mountains or the woods.

The fresh air will instantly begin to lull you out of your big-city blues, and our outdoor jacuzzi, nature trails and Spa treatments will take care of your body & spirit."  
  


About the Facilitator - Felicia Grant 
Felicia is retired with 29 years as a Financial Advisor. Founder of The DragonflyExperience. A Certified Soul Coach® trained by International Author, healer, teacher,  Denise Linn.  Felicia is an experienced facilitator and continues to study and grow spiritually with teachers such as Carolyn Myss, John Holland, Doreen Virtue, & Wayne Dyer. 
"Retiring from Corporate America has given me the opportunity to help women in creating and living authentic lives filled with passion and joy!"

The aim of Soul Coaching® is to align your inner spiritual life. It helps clear away mental, emotional, and physical clutter so that you can hear the message from within. It also helps you discover your purpose so you can design a life that supports that mission.   

"Eat Pray Love" - "Never forget that once upon a time, in an unguarded moment, you recognized yourself as a friend." - Elizabeth Gilbert.

Questions??? Call me 919.523.8502

Namaste'
Felicia Grant
The DragonflyExperience
Certified Soul Coach®
www.feliciagrant.com

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Speak your Truth


We often talk about speaking our truth, but how many people even understand what that means?  Our truth is that wise part of us that knows who we are, what we need, and what we believe in.  It is a personal truth – it differs between individuals, and it often changes over time.  What matters most is that we acknowledge this truth, and honour it by being able to voice our ideas, opinions, needs and wants.
If you have trouble asking for help, if you say no when you mean yes and yes when you mean no, if you find it hard to say what you really feel or think for fear of upsetting or offending others, if you worry about being judged or ridiculed for your opinions, or if your voice deserts you altogether when you’re called upon to speak up, it’s time to work on speaking your truth, and we can help do that by balancing and opening the Throat Chakra, an energy centre located near the base of the neck.  If you put your hand to your throat you’ll automatically gravitate to it.
The Throat Chakra is all about communication – voicing our inner truth, expressing ourselves and our creativity, speaking up about our personal intentions, desires, needs and ideas.  The colour of this chakra is blue.
The Throat Chakra governs the throat, mouth, gums, teeth, thyroid, neck, shoulders, arms and hands – we can hold a lot of tension here from not speaking and honouring our truth. We can bite down or even choke on all of our unexpressed thoughts and emotions. Do a little check of these areas.  Is there any tension, constriction or pain? When our Throat Chakra is open and balanced we are excellent communicators – with good listening skills, strong non-verbal communications and a clear speaking voice. We speak our truth – we hear, acknowledge and express that inner voice.  We will also have access to our intuition and, for some people, the ability to connect into telepathic and channeling abilities.

If the Throat Chakra is closed down or unbalanced we can suffer anxiety, frustration, low
immunity, poor or no boundaries, and an inability to ask for help or have our needs met.
Speaking up for yourself takes courage
This may be expressed outwardly as anger, criticism or judgment.  It may be expressed inwardly as fatigue, overeating and other addictions, self abuse in many forms, and not saying what we mean or feel for risk of hurting, angering, upsetting or offending others.
We might do too much talking and not enough listening, we can’t be told, we are nervous talkers, we fill the silences with words, we talk but don’t do enough doing or acting, we disclose too much, we have a lack of discernment in sharing information, we overcommit and overpromise, we ‘spin’ to make people feel good.  We swallow down our feelings and truths and they get lodged in the lower chakras, causing further blockages and lack of flow.
5 steps to help us find and speak our truth:
1) Journaling
2) Meditation
3) Breathing & visualize your throat chakra opening
4) Singing or chanting (especially the ee sound)
5) Take small step towards saying NO instead of YES
Speak the truth even if you voice shakes – Speaking up for yourself takes courage….
Namaste’ Felicia